Monday, October 6, 2008
I can recall the vague rememberance of playing football as a kid for Mr. Richardson. We played in the Pop Warner system in Fairless Hills, Pennsylvania. We practiced and played at my Grade school, Elanor Roosevelt, where my recollection was that we were pretty good. I played fullback and also played on the defensive line. I remember that I had to lose weight just to play and recall having to eat nothing but apples and Slim Jims for about two weeks in my personal attempt to control the battle of the bulge. I am almost certain that my parents didn't know I was eating so well. I also realize now that I may have a distorted view of my time spent playing for the mighty Richardson's Rams. I had a talk with my dad recently and he asked me how it was going with coaching and everything. I said it was hard to get a bunch of 8 year olds to do anything let alone something as complex as a double wing offense and a gap mirror defense. he sat across from me, his face tanned from retirement but grooved from years of battling me as a son and he smiled a knowing smile. I asked what was so funny and he said that I probably don't remember how it was when I was in little kid football. I said that I thought I did and went on to say that I thought kids probably had more interest then. We seemed from my memory to be committed to winning and at the very least could pay attention to our coaches for a whole practice. I went on a little rant then and talked about how some of our kids complain about getting kicked in the shin or banged on th elbow. They seem a little "light" I say. His grin widens and his eyes look over the top of his glasses now as he pulls his chin back and offers up that he isn't sure about whether kids are less tough now or not but that he is pretty sure I have a distorted memory of my time in the "Big Leagues". I was taken back a bit, sure that my recall was nearly perfect and asked him what he meant. He said, I am not sure that you remember but the most important thing to you were your socks. You perseverated over whether mom had washed the socks for practices and game days. You had to have the right socks and they had to be pulled up to your knees at all times. You would constantly be fidgeting with them on the sidelines and in the huddle. people would make comments about your fascination with your socks. It was so bad that as you ran you would look at your socks to make sure they looked OK. I am not certain but I would tend to bet Mr. Richardson probably went home at the end of practices and said to his wife, ' oh my God, there is this big bull of a kid who just can't get his stuff together 'cuz he is always looking at his socks.' I guess you all have your crosses to bear as coaches but I think it will always be the same. Kids are kids. You're not going to change that... so you better learn to embrace it or you will drive yourself nuts."
My dad is sage. I have come to try and embrace the thing that makes kids great. They don't carry with them the weight of the world. They don't dwell on the past. They live for the now. While that doesn't always work out for us adults and our busy deadline oriented lives, we could take a page from the book of kid wisdom and relearn from it. Slow down a bit and take time to just be kid-like. Remember that joy comes from doing that which you love seldom does that include the drudgery of work or chores. Remember how we would do just enough to get by before running off to "play". I can remember days of my youth where we were gone from sun up to sun down playing all over the neighborhood. In all that time I can't ever remember having a care in the world. My imagination was as big as the sky and my world seemed limitless. Of course it was all a ruse but the sense that I got from my kid's vision of the world is what mattered.
I admonish each of you to try and rediscover what it is to be a kid. Coach or hang out with some if you are having a hard time. If you have kids, watch them and see how their world is limitless and without boundary.
Saturday, July 12, 2008
I actually look forward to Saturdays at the office when I get to treat and reconnect with old friends. I am not too sure that sort of thing exists in medicine as prominently as it might have in the past. Doctors are pushed to the extremes and don't have as much time to linger with their patients and develop a friendship. I often ask patients if they have a familiar relationship with their primary care or family physicians and answers in the affirmative are becoming slim. I ask occasionally because of our inability to write scrips for medicines that I feel may help a patient with a symptom of issue that is hindering our care. It would be nice if patients had relationships with their family physicians that allowed them to call and say something like,"My chiropractor asked me to call you and tell you that he thinks I have condition ABC because of these three things that he found when he checked me out today and he wondered if it would be possible to have you consider prescribing drug X to help combat that." As is now normal, the doctor almost always says that he or she would need to see the patient first and the first available time they could do that would be in about a month. That is provided, that they actually got to speak to the doctor personally which, as you all know, is a fleeting if not an altogether lost cause.
My sense is that this will only worsen as time passes and as we shift to a socialized for of health care delivery. Be careful what you vote for.
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
I am often asked by patients whether or not their mattress makes a difference on the way their back feels and if so what type should they choose. That often draws a lengthy speech about sleeping and sleep surfaces which after I have repeated it for the 20th time in a day gets a bit tiring… for me. So, in the interest of keeping all of my patients informed and reducing the strain on my vocal cords I will give you my opinion right here for you to read at your leisure.
Mattresses are fairly recent inventions when compared to the history of modern man. We have been sleeping on our backs, sides and fronts since our adaptation of bipedalism and only in the last fifteen hundred years or so have we added a cushion for our comfort. The cushion began as leaves and sticks and slowly progressed through sacks filled with straw, corn cobs, horsehair, and animal pelts, to hammocks and hammocks with horsehair and more, to what we have today which, is some combination of springs, air, cotton padding, space foam, water and other materials.
Since their beginning mattresses have been designed with the same end goal which was to act as a pad or cushion of some sort between us and the hard ground. They are pretty successful at that now compared to early models but, you have to ask yourself if that is what your body really wants. It feels good to your skin to be suspended off the hard floor but the reality is that our bodies are made to sleep on hard surfaces when they are properly tuned. The tuning part is what we work on together and I have to be honest and say I have never found someone who was perfectly tuned. But, you are probably better at sleeping on hard surfaces than you think. You have become accustomed to sleeping on a soft fluffy bed and it feels welcoming and normal to you but you could probably do with a much firmer sleeping surface. The rationale behind a harder sleeping surface is related to the body’s ability to maintain postural control of your spine and other important structures. The spine is made to support itself as you lie down. Pressure from the surface you lie upon registers with touch receptors in your skin to tell you when they have been over stimulated and need to be relieved. This little dance between your skin getting sore and your postural muscles being able to hold your spine in a stable position during sleep is what is important. This is commonly subverted when the surface you sleep on is so soft that there is no, or relatively no skin feedback to make you move. If you don’t move a lot during a normal night’s sleep then your spine starts to sag on its ligamentous support and eventually, over the course of time, becomes weak and possibly distorted which can lead to pain and dysfunction.
In case you think your mattress isn’t too important just think about the amount of time you spend on it. Every night, for 6-9 hours you lie atop this modern bag of cornhusks and pray for a good night’s sleep. You should be turning every so often to relieve pressures that are building up on your skin and spine. But is f the top of your mattress is too soft then you likely are not moving enough. That leads to all sorts of problems as outlined already. If I asked you to maintain a posture for one hour you would begin to see the craziness of thinking that you could maintain your sleeping posture without change for 6-8 hours. If you want verification, try looking to the right as far as you can by turning your head and then hold that position for ten minutes. You will quickly see how malposition effects you in short order. Now imagine hours of that.
So, my bottom line… pick the firmest sleeping surface you can stand and add a tiny bit of padding to the top to provide the smallest extra skin padding you can get away with. The big, thick, pillow tops are not all they are cracked up to be and the new fangled NASA foams and their ilk are overrated. The only modern “better mousetrap” might be the Select Comfort beds which allow you to change the stiffness of the bed as you feel necessary They do allow you the option of deflating the mattress somewhat if your back is sore and needs a softer surface for a night or two. The key with them is to make sure you re-inflate them to the firmest setting your body is comfortable with once you back returns to normal.